I recently realized that my way of writing postcards to you all has become a sort of ritual, and I want to hear what your postcard-writing “ritual” is! Mine goes like this:
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Clean hands. I always wash my hands before starting. I do not want anything on my hands to stain or smear on the paper, making it look greasy and possibly preventing stickers or stamps from sticking properly. I think of postcards as a handshake to the recipient, and it feels disrespectful to shake your hand with cookie crumbs or dog slobber on them!
I also do not usually have a drink near me, in case I spill. I do, however, enjoy receiving postcards that have the typical black smudges and smears from the mail sorting machines!
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Getting to know you. Next, I read your profile. Then I read it again. I review it a few times until I have a basic impression of your interests, lifestyle, and personality. I love both long, detailed profiles, as well as short, straightforward ones. You are all such lovely people.
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Time to select a postcard! This step takes the longest. I do not have a massive selection of blank postcards, but I think I have enough to find something that will suit anyone. Sometimes I have a card that, almost magically, checks multiple boxes in your wish list; most of the time, this is not the case. I may decide on a card for you and then, moments later, change my mind and swap it for another. Or another. Or another, and so on. Again, I reread the recipient’s profile several times to solidify my choice.
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Stamp selection. I grab my envelopes full of stamps and start sifting through them to find stamps that you will find interesting or fun. The USPS International Forever stamps are so cute (little succulent plants!), but I really enjoy choosing 2-3 stamps whose value adds up to the correct postage, because the more, the merrier! Like selecting a postcard, if I have a stamp that is PERFECT for you, my heart sings!
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Washi tape time! Years ago, I went on a mad washi tape-buying spree, and I am still reaping the benefits. I choose a piece of tape or two that either coordinate with the stamps, the card, or the recipient’s interests, and I place it along one of the sides of the card. (Placing it underneath where the stamps will go ensures that it will stay attached throughout its journey.)
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How will it get there? After attaching the washi tape and the stamps on top of it, I write or print the address. I do this before writing anything else to ensure that there is plenty of space for it to be clear and legible. Sometimes, I will draw faint pencil lines to write on, to make sure my writing is straight; the last thing I want is to cause confusion to the mail carrier with a jumbled address. Then, I erase the pencil lines beneath.
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ID. Like the address, I want to be sure that the ID is clear and legible (and that I do not forget about it entirely), so I write this before any of the message.
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Decoration. I love using stickers, especially if your birthday is coming soon, or if I think they will bring you a smile. If the recipient is a child, I go especially crazy with the extra decorations! Again, I try to keep them out of the way of where I want to write my message.
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What to say? After ALL of that, the very last thing I do is write my message, ideally having a nice, large area to do so after adding decoration! I love to write a lot, as well as to receive cards with a lot of writing where space permits. My message varies greatly, and depends heavily on what I think you will enjoy reading. My ultimate goal is to write something that will make you see a little bit of yourself in me, to feel a small connection to a stranger across the world. I often describe Postcrossing as micro-diplomacy: I want to show you that you have friends everywhere around the world, no matter what relationship the leaders of our respective countries may have.
So now, what is YOUR postcard-writing ritual? Is it slow and deliberate like mine, or do you love to sit down quickly and just go for it? Do you write cards on your lunch break, or on the train home? Do you like to listen to music or watch TV while you write, or do you prefer silence? Do you write them in one sitting, or come back to them throughout the day?
Tell me everything!