Some friends and both my sisters got accounts themselves, one of my sisters is still active and yesterday told me that she wrote 29 cards at once after a long hiatus.
My mother would love to do Postcrossing, but she doesn’t speak English and I’m not around anymore to help her.
My boyfriend thinks it’s hilarious that I’m with “old ladies”, even though there are quite many Postcrossers who aren’t and also that’s not a bad thing. But he still points out to me when he sees a postcard rack and asks if I want to get some, very sweet.
Another friend likes to go through my received cards stash and likes to look at the animal cards I get.
When I was a teenager, teachers/supervisors found it great, as they said it’d help my English and give me a nice hobby.
First of all, heeeey, West Side neighbor! I suspect that this is a general, knee-jerk reaction to the idea of sharing one’s address with a stranger, which is understandable (even if your home address is publicly available anyway). Keeping one’s home address a relative secret is so ingrained in us that we immediately reject the notion before even considering where the person who will receive our address is located. Regardless of what could happen, it makes some people uneasy, which is why the FAQ section recommends using a PO box if people have safety concerns.
…they’re not wrong, I guess. But…there are a lot of things that are “old-fashioned” and also widely considered to be enjoyable. Board games are literally thousands of years old, and we’re still playing them today! Tell those people it’s not old-fashioned: it’s timeless.
This was my incentive to start Postcrossing again. A physical card or gift in the mail, no matter how simple, has a kind of magic that you can’t replicate with a Zoom call or a text. It’s a nice complement to the ways we stay connected digitally.
Currently, almost 65% of Postcrossers prefer female pronouns, so he’s 65% correct about that part. I wonder what the average age of users is, though–there seems to be a wide range of ages involved. I’ve drawn so many profiles of people in their teens and twenties lately that I suspect I’m the old lady.
I don’t remember my family being surprised at all, but then again I and my sister had already done quite lot of penpaling before I discovered Postcrossing so it was more like natural continuation. My sister and mom also did Postcrossing for a while, and I very often get postcards and stamps as gifts. People seems to really love to gift me stamps. I think it is because it is fun to shop them, it is not the usual gift so it feels more special, and they know I will definitely use the stamps.
With friends it has been mix of confusion and “oh, I do that too.” Finnish friends mostly know Postcrossing already. It is still popular there and used to be even more popular so many have an idea what it is about. Swedish friends are mostly confused about why I would ever just send things to strangers, but I think they have got used to see me doing my weekly trip to the mail box with all the mail I am sending so they are not asking anymore. People often are curiously interested on my stamp collections and huge pile of cards, when they come over for a visit!
My best friend, who is Canadian, seemed to first be uncomfortable about the idea of giving out my address to strangers in regular basic, but nowadays she asks now and then how the swaps are going, and I keep her up to date with all the Canadian cards I get. We are still waiting for the card from Nova Scotia to arrive as so far most have been from Ontario, for her disappointment.
My husband is supportive. He likes seeing the postcards that come in too. He will look for postcards for me when he travels alone, he goes to the post office for/with me, and he’s even gone to Postcrossing meetups!
Other people seem to think it’s weird but generally harmless.
My sister introduced me to postcrossing. And once in a while checks on me see how I’m going.
Otherwise my family is not really interested. Hubby supports me and sometimes curiously tries to read cards (tssss) but that’s about it.
I suspect (? hope) the kids will be more interested when they’re a bit older.
My boyfriend finds it interesting and cute. I always share what postcards I’ve received and tell him about the person who wrote it. He sometimes also helps me with ideas what to write or which postcard to pick when he sees me sitting down and getting buried in my stationary items - just not so long ago I drew an address from his home country (Poland) and he was very excited to help me! I put my received postcards on a wall and he seems to enjoy them as a decoration. Although, I have to say that giving me a side eye when I keep bringing home newly bought unwritten postcards and my stash of cards to send keeps growing is quite a frequent thing now
When I say my hobby is Postcrossing people usually say to me “what’s that?” My mother loves collecting my postcards from the PO Box and my whole family will usually have a look at the cards I receive. My family and friends will often think of me when traveling and bring me back postcards. My friends will often ask am I still Postcrossing and how’s it going, especially with COVID. Sometimes I even have postcards for other people placed in my PO Box, I am thinking this may be because I get so many. I simply return them to the post office to be redirected.
I learned about Postcrossing from a friend, so of course she totally gets this hobby - although I think she secretly thinks I’m overdoing things a bit. I don’t think I’ve ever had a negative reaction about Postcrossing from anyone, but I don’t discuss it with people on a daily basis. One friend once gave me a stack of ad cards he’d collected, but mostly they don’t get involved. I don’t believe any of them would be as excited as me if I told them about the super cool Commonwealth Games PHQ card I received recently - with matching stamp, too!
My mother is always so interested in my postcards that I have asked her if she didn’t want to join herself, but no. But she often brings me cards from her travels or trips and she even kind of knows what will be useful to me - for example she doesn’t buy viewcards in different countries (only from other parts of Germany), but she got me cards of the Swedish royals from her trip to Stockholm and Beatles cards when she was in Liverpool. Her partner tells me that she is always on the lookout for a postcard rack and can spend a long time picking out cards for me - my mother really is wonderful! My aunt once gave me a postcard set and my uncle tried to make a bit of fun of me when I explained the hobby to him and said that you can exchange postcards with the whole world. I think the didn’t believe it would be that impressive and asked for the most far-away or exotic country I’d received postcards from - Saint Martin, Greenland and Laos kind of shut him up.
I often get puzzled looks when I explain postcrossing and tell that I write oneway cards with strangers.
My friends and family thinks it´s interesting but not so interesting that they would join themself. But I often get cards for postcrossing from them and questions about what cards I get, and of course I´m happy to tell something.
Recently I get lots of Bingo cards and that was a little too much for my parents to unterstand… I try to explain, no this is not a official Postcrossing card, it´s because I had 50 countries in a bingo…
My father wasn’t happty about sharing our address with strangers, so he wanted to make me stop because of that.
But on the other hand, he was kind of supportive. For instance if I needed to get some stamps for the postcards, I could write the stamp cost in the corner of the postcard, put it in a plastic bag with the correct amount of money and hand it over to the mail carrier. Then my father would happyily hand that over to the mail woman for me. (We lived in a really rural area then, and the local store didn’t have a lot of stamps… And we got to know the mail lady, and she accepted getting unstamped postcards and cash.)
My nephew did get postcards from me every now and then before, which I mainly gave him by sending them in the mail! I haven’t been good at sending him postcards lately, though. He loved getting postcards! Once I was on the phone with my sister when my nephew and brother-in-law came home. They had picked up the mail on their way home, and found a large postcard from me. I heard a door opening and then my nephew shouted in a very excited voice “Mummy!!! I’ve got a postcard from auntie!!!”
My brother-in-law has said he’s glad I’m sending the postcards to my nephew and that he thinks it’s important that those postcards are kept and not thrown away.
My partner says it’s “cute” and he enjoys my “enthusiasm”, like the daily trip downstairs to check my mail (when working from home) or the checking every time I come home if I’ve been out, or me having to check every shop for postcards - I think I looked at gift shops a lot before anyway, and I always sent a couple of postcards from every trip anyway.
My mum is kind of indifferent, I had a lot of penpals when I was growing up so it just feels like it’s back to that era (I have not lived with my parents while I’ve been on Postcrossing, only for short periods). She used to receive postcards from every trip I took anyway, but nowadays she is much more into fridge magnets so I save the postcard money and buy a magnet instead.
(Oh wow, remember travelling? Funny that )
…I have not mentioned it to many other people, either it never really came up or I don’t feel like explaining or I think in a couple of cases I tried but they weren’t really listening. A few times I got a “cool!” but I think the person forgot about it a minute afterwards. A friend who used to be into penpalling and always sends postcards from holidays (and receives them from me regularly) seemed intrigued and said she’ll look into it but I don’t think she did, she is very busy anyway. But when I last visited her just for a weekend she kindly helped me posting two cards as I didn’t have time before leaving, we took a day trip on the Sunday where I bought cards and stamps but my flight was early on Monday. (yes airports have mailbox but rather than looking for it she kindly posted them).
Once a friend was very excited because she had reserved a book in the library which was coming from another library in the same city, she found it amazing that the book had to travel So I told her about my cards coming from wherever and she seemed a bit impressed, but that was it
My boyfriend always makes (friendly) jokes… like we’re going to need a bigger house or an annex But he always waits when I want to look for cards and also buys cards for me on business trips My daughter always says I’m crazy, but she’s a postcrosser too! But she is sending very few cards only.
The rest of my family and friends get me cards from their travels, too. But they don’t want to join. One colleague even wanted to send me a card from a business trip to Somalia, but there was no working post service available neither were cards sold anywhere.
Boyfriends (when I had some…) were supportive. They were sometimes taking postcards to the mailbox while on their way to work.
Now I am single and I live in a house right next to my parents, so now they help me with mailing postcards too They don’t mind our address being sent to strangers, as I’ve always had penpals from all over the world writing to me. But they do worry for my bank account! Stamps for an international letter or postcards are 1,40 € and I send a lot of these But they are always happy to look at my received postcards
Initially (at the very beginning), my friends were kind of skeptical - some were like “Wouldn’t you rather have a penpal than just receive cards by some random people and never have contact with them again?”. But many of my friends and family have always been fond of sending postcards and over the years, my mum, brother and one of my friends have joined Postcrossing as well My mum has even sent more postcards than me by now, although she started half a year after me.
My family thinks it’s great. My husband also supports me and thinks it’s great that I’ve found a hobby that I enjoy so much. He always likes to look at the postcards I get and watches me when I write them.
It’s different with my friends. They tend to understand less and also can’t understand why I enjoy it. That’s why I never really tell you much about it. At my age (24), this is unnecessary money for most people. “Everything can be done over the Internet” is always the answer.
Yes I think my family just accept it - it’s not like I have many hobbies. My teenage kids are not quite as interested as I had hoped, but my parents LOVE to look through my boxes of received card - my dad collects stamps so he’s interested in those too. My friends probably think I’m quite mad as it’s pretty expensive: £1.45 to post any postcard from UK.
because there’s a mailbox basically in front of where i work i take my cards to work quite a lot. my boss is very enthousiastic, he asks me everytime where my cards are going this time and he really shows interest, how everything works and stuff. my friends aren’t that excited about my cards so it’s nice to at least once in a while just yell ‘look how cute the card is i’m sending today’. my friends however do send me cards when they’re on holiday, if they think about it, so that’s very sweet. and when we go shopping together they enjoy picking out postcards with me.
oh and one time i went to a small shop and bought some cards and i don’t remember how we came to talk about it but i told the lady behind the counter that it’s for pc and she even wrote the website down. i haven’t been there in a while so i never got to ask if she got into postcrossing but i love encounters like that.
I suspect that this is a general, knee-jerk reaction to the idea of sharing one’s address with a stranger, which is understandable (even if your home address is publicly available anyway). Keeping one’s home address a relative secret is so ingrained in us that we immediately reject the notion before even considering where the person who will receive our address is located. Regardless of what could happen, it makes some people uneasy, which is why 
But…there are a lot of things that are “old-fashioned” and also widely considered to be enjoyable. Board games are literally thousands of years old, and we’re still playing them today! Tell those people it’s not old-fashioned: it’s timeless. 
I wonder what the average age of users is, though–there seems to be a wide range of ages involved. I’ve drawn so many profiles of people in their teens and twenties lately that I suspect I’m the old lady. 
Anyway, one is as young as one feels, right?
One friend once gave me a stack of ad cards he’d collected, but mostly they don’t get involved. I don’t believe any of them would be as excited as me if I told them about the super cool Commonwealth Games PHQ card I received recently - with matching stamp, too! 
My aunt once gave me a postcard set and my uncle tried to make a bit of fun of me when I explained the hobby to him and said that you can exchange postcards with the whole world. I think the didn’t believe it would be that impressive and asked for the most far-away or exotic country I’d received postcards from - Saint Martin, Greenland and Laos kind of shut him up. 
and he enjoys my “enthusiasm”, like the daily trip downstairs to check my mail (when working from home) or the checking every time I come home if I’ve been out, or me having to check every shop for postcards - I think I looked at gift shops a lot before anyway, and I always sent a couple of postcards from every trip anyway.
So I told her about my cards coming from wherever and she seemed a bit impressed, but that was it 
But he always waits when I want to look for cards and also buys cards for me on business trips 
But they are always happy to look at my received postcards 
My mum has even sent more postcards than me by now, although she started half a year after me.